General Questions

Intimacy Finder is an online software application where couples in a committed, monogamous relationship can learn more about one another in and out of the bedroom. The focus is to grow closer and experience deeper love together. The system is seperated into major sections and allows you to view any section you desire at your own pace.

Sections include:

  • Articles that teach about the dynamics in long-term monogamous relationships, how to overcome obstacles, falling deeper in love and much more.
  • Ideas designed to help spark romance, passion and desire. Our ideas range from simple dates to increasing passion in the bedroom.
  • Discussion Topics that teach and help couples talk about subjects that impact all relationships. The goal of each discussion is to help couples come into agreement on what they want their relationship to look like.
  • Recommended Resources including books, DVDs, software applications, other online web sites to help build intimacy in your relationship. There is even a list of recommended intimacy products so couples can purchase what they like without having to perform a potentially embarassing search online.
  • The Intimacy Quiz which allows couples to answer questions in a secure, private format from any web enabled device and then compare answers with each other to see how their desires line up.

Intimacy Finder is built to be used by one adult couple (one man and one woman) in a comitted, monogamous relationship, preferabbly a relationship inside of marriage.

Cost and pricing vary depending on the type of account you select. Our promise and goal is to keep Intimacy Finder as affordable as we can, so you can generally expect the cost for an annual subscription to be around the price of a dinner out. See our pricing page for more information on current plans.

NO. Because we do not sell user data to other advertisers or companies the only way we can provide service and pay our bills is by charging our users for access. Our goal is to always keep the system as affordable as possible while maintaining security and an excellent user experience.

NO. Intimacy Finder is in no way designed to replace or be used in place of professional counseling. The goal of Intimacy Finder is to help couples discover things about one another and learn new ways to deepen connection by learning well researched methods of communication and relationship dynamics. While Intimacy Finder may be used by a professional counselor in conjunction with other treatment methods to help your relationship, it is not intended to be used as a sole resource for any couple seeking counseling or professional help.

If you are in a place where you feel you need couseling we recommend reading our guideslines for choosing a marriage or pre-marriage counselor. These guidelines are written for informational purposes intended to help you in finding the right counselor for your relationship.

NO. Intimacy Finder does not offer counseling services of any kind. We do provide recommended guidelines for marriage counseling or pre-marriage counseling. These guidelines are written for informational purposes intended to help you in finding the right counselor for your relationship.

Users can cancel their account anytime they wish by signing in and going to their My Account page. Once on that page, simply click the Cancel My Account button and follow the prompts.

Please Note: When you cancel your account all the data associated with your login and your spouse's login will be deleted. Once completed this process cannot be undone and all associated data linked to your account will be lost and is not recoverable.

Intimacy Quiz Questions

The Intimacy Quiz is a simple question and answer application that allows you and your significant other to privately answer the same questions at your own pace from any web enabled device. All of your answers are stored in your account to be reviewed or changed at your discretion.

Intimacy Finder then allows you to compare your answers with one another any time you wish using a variety of comparison methods. This allows you to see things you both said you liked, didn't like or things you want to talk about to name a few.

The Intimacy Quiz is designed to help couples find out what they both like in and out of the bedroom as well as drive new conversations that can lead to mutual discovery about your desires. The focus of the Intimacy Quiz is to draw you closer together and help you learn more about the love of your life.

NO. Intimacy Finder does not currently allow you to add your own custom questions or edit existing questions.

The best thing to do is be honest with yourself. Try not to think about what your spouse wants or or might think, really focus on what you like and don't like. This allows them to gain insight into how you feel and what you really think about situations or actions in a non-threatning way.

The goal is allow your significant other to really hear what you think about any given question's topic. This should lead each of you into more discovery about how you can each mutually please one another. The results can be life changing, but it all starts with you being honest with yourself!

Remeber: No one but your spouse will ever see your answers here, so try to be as vunerable as possible and really say what you like and don't like.

NO. The Intimacy Quiz contains questions grouped together by the main categories listed below. While sexual intimacy is included there are lots of questions that deal with issues and situations outside of the physical aspect of your relationship including things that you like after sex.

Categories Include:

  • Dating
  • Foreplay
  • Locations for Sex
  • Oral Sex
  • Romance
  • Sexual Intimacy
  • Sexual Positions

NO. We do not allow for the export of data from Intimacy Finder.

NO. Currently we do not allow user accounts to be linked or re-assigned to another user other than the one a user originally registered with. We restrict this to protect the integrity of the Intimacy Finder application and it's intended use.

YES. We do allow users to have all their answers removed from the Intimacy Quiz using the reset Intimacy Quiz form under the My Account Page. This allow them to run through the questions again like they were taking the quiz for the first time. Requests are handled inside the application in the My Account Section.

You may also CANCEL your account at anytime if you wish which automatically deletes all the answers to the Intimacy Quiz and all other data linked to your login and your spouse's login. You may cancel your account in the My Account Section.

Please Note: that neither of these options is reversable. Resetting the questions only impacts your specific login, while canceling your account will delete both yours and your spouse's data.

Privacy Questions

Intimacy Finder stores all user information inside our own closed proprietary database system. All personal user information is encrypted to help protect the privacy of all our users, so even our back-end staff cannot know who our users are. Once logged in, the Intimacy Finder system decrypts user information for display to the logged in user only.

YES.

We realize that some of the information being presented and collected in the Intimacy Finder application can be considered senstive or potentially embarassing to some. Because of that you can use whatever name you like. You will need to use a legitimate email address that you can access (we recommend using a personal account and not a work email), but you are free to enter any display name you choose.

We do encourage using your real name because the system frequently inserts the first name you enter and your partner's first name into sections to personalize the experience. This can help you focus on your spouse when interacting with the system.

You can always change the name displayed in the system anytime by signing in and going to the My Account page. Once there edit the first name field for each user and click Update My Account below. You will need to logout and then back in to see the name change take effect.

No one except you and the user you register with can see your personal information and answers in Intimacy Finder. Even backend staff cannot see user information, answers or activity in regards to your specific personal answers.

Intimacy Finder may at times look at large data sets from all users combined. This helps us see how users interact with sections of the application as well as to improve system stability, usability and functionality. Any data used in this way is ALWAYS anonymous and will never link to you or your spouse specifically.

NO. Intimacy Finder will NEVER share your information with any organization or individual. Even our in-house staff cannot view, edit or change your information or data in any way.

Intimacy Finder may share general statistical data with outside parties for various uses, but such data sharing will always abide by the guidelines in our Privacy Policy and will NEVER reveal or link to specific user accounts or specific user information.

Any survey information requested from Initmacy Finder is always collected anonymously and is only used to improve Intimacy Finder. No one, including your spouse, will see any survey answers you share with us.

When you register for an Intimacy Finder account, your registration is done as a couple. This links your account to your spouse and no one else. Individual user accounts can only be linked and share information with the account they were originally registered with.

Any other user's account will not be able to view, share or interact with your account in any way. This is hard coded into the Intimacy Finder System and cannot be changed by you, your spouse, or any other user. This prevents you from accidentally interacting with another user or giving anyone the ability to see your information.

Intimacy Finder uses cookies for specific user interactions inside our web software application only. Cookies are not shared by Intimacy Finder with any outside system, website or company for any purpose and are only ever used by IntimacyFinder.com. You can delete our cookies anytime you wish at your discretion through your browser settings.